So since me and my boyfriend have started having sex I have quickly come to find that I don’t make him cum from sex or a bj. He tells me he can do it at home just fine sometimes twice a day which makes me think that the reason he can’t is maybe it’s my fault. I start to think things like “Do I need to try something different?” “Is he still attracted to me?” He has told me that “it isn’t me it’s him” but again if he can do it at home why can’t he do it with me. He has also said “I’m just happy to be involved” when I asked him if he enjoyed the sex, and another occasion when he says that he doesn’t really feel anything when we have sex. I just feel so insecure about it all and think about not having sex for a while to save myself the disappointment. Am I doing something wrong?