Am I wrong ?

Ok so I’ve been in a relationship for 6yrs I don’t really have much friends anymore females don’t really like me and males usually like me too much so my boyfriend didn’t want me talking to guys.....we are currently going through it so we’re not together guess it’s a break could be the end idk but I’ve start mingling for friends only....I have a new male friend who completely understand I’m in an off and on situation only wanting friends...I talked to my ex/boyfriend whatever he is at this point and I told him I need more friends because once we break up I have no one he called me a “Thot” saying he knows what I’m trying to do smh he has lots of friends both male and female that he hangs out with though he knew them before me I knew people before him as well but he asked me to not talk to them n change my number which I did...but I don’t feel like it’s far because when I ask him to stop talking to someone he can’t and it’s like he wants himself to be all that I have....am I wrong for meeting new friends? I’m in control of what happens if I feel like someone likes me I will not talk to them