Are you comfortable w you SO finding their coworkers attractive?

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Does it concern you at all? Does it make you feel jealous? Or insecure?

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I said no. The reason i said no is because I know for a fact there will be women my husband finds attractive and Im fine with that. What Im not okay with is knowing who from his job he find attractive. We don't need to be talking about how attractive anyone in our daily lives are. I feel like thats crossing a boundary and I like my man to make me feel secure.

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Lots of women are more attractive than I am. That doesn't lessen my husband's love or commitment to me.

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Attractive people exist there’s no changing it

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I'm not so much of an egomaniac that I expect my husband to be attracted to only me and no other woman on earth. That's ridiculous. I've found coworkers attractive before, that does NOT mean that I would ever act on it or have any thoughts about doing so. I trust my husband completely and he trusts me 🤷‍♀️

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Unless you’re going to blind your husband, he’s going to find other people attractive. That’s animal nature. It’s unrealistic to expect otherwise, so it best be something you’re comfortable with. Jealousy and insecurity only pushes people away and causes rifts in relationships. Therapy is a good place to work on overcoming these feelings and being more confident in yourself and your worth.

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It’s human nature to find others attractive. As long as they aren’t acting on it I don’t see an issue.

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Lots of affairs start in the workplace so no I wouldn’t be happy about my man admitting to being attracted to someone he works with.

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Only reason I said yes is because if he blatantly tells me, otherwise I won’t know so technically I won’t think he does? Obviously he’s going to find people attractive, everyone does. It’s just if it’s thoughts then it’s technically nonexistent to me. If he acts on it or tells me it then yeah I would because I’d be like “well what does her being pretty have to do with working together?” I mean he tells me about his coworkers all the time since he works with mostly females (works in a clinic), so he doesn’t describe them like that, he describes them by personality. Nice, mean, rude, bitchy, lazy, really hard worker, fast or slow. I don’t tell him or ask about them, he just vents about anything even patients as his job is stressful (without giving personal info).

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So, in my past relationships this would make me insecure and even upset! But I’m my current relationship, I trust him to see others as attractive but not in an “I want you” type of way. Because he is truly a great guy and can control himself. I see other men as attractive but it doesn’t mean I want them or want to pursue them. I’m happy where I’m at! I guess it just depends on the type of relationship you have.

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