Thoughts??

My mother in law likes to judge everything I do. And I ordered all of the furniture for the nursery (I’m over 20 weeks now) and i wanted to start doing the room within the month of March. I am already a lot bigger then I was with my first and I know my energy has been lower this pregnancy and i just want to be able to help get it done. And she judges me for buying all the stuff we need “too early”. Am I being ridiculous or would this bug someone else as well?