I need advice/opinions!

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We have been TTC our #2 since last summer. I miscarried in Dec/Jan, but we are back on the wagon. My next cycle is March...meaning...I’d have another December baby. My due date would probably be around 12/8, which is my son’s birthday, AND ALSO MINE 😂😫

My husband wants to skip trying in March to avoid another early December baby. I’m torn. It might be special but then I don’t want to take away my first’s birthday more than it is (from sharing with me.) and how would we do birthday parties?

I’m 35 and hate to sit out a month because ideally I’d love 3 kids 😭 what would you do?

Pic of future big brother Eli just for cuteness: