So she lives with my husband and I and she pays us rent. When she got her first stimlus check she put a back deck on the house. We didn't ask her to she just did it which were were fine with. She literally just pays us rent and we pay every other bill. We pay electric, internet, hulu, netflix, disney ect. Anyways she messaged my husband the other day and wanted to know if we would go half in on one of those big awnings that covers the whole deck. My husband said he would get back to her on it. She he asked me about it and we decided that we don't need one right now and that we have more important things that we need like my husband needs a new truck because his has a lot of issues and we don't know how much longer its going to last so she asked again and he told her that we had other things we needed to buy like one of them being the new truck. ( when i say new i mean a used truck but new to us) anyways she texted back and said whatever.... i try to do things around the house to make the house more enjoyable for everyone and anytime i mention anything it gets shot down because I am just old and stupid. She went on to say I used my whole first check to put a deck on the back of the house by myself and the least yall could do is help afford the awning. (Mind you she has one of those big umbellas that covers a good chunk of the deck). So my husband texted back that basically we appreciate the deck but that it was totally her choice to do that. Also that he needs a better truck because he doesn't know how long it will last. He also went on to say the least we could do? He said we have the house maintenance that we have to afford ourselves, we had the septic pumped ourselves, we pay for everything I listed above. The reason they were texting was because he wasn't home then she wasn't home later in the day when he was. Anyways now she hasnt responded and is giving us the silent treatment since last night. My question is did we overreact or is she crossing a line and being completely crazy?

Edit: she put in her text that she wishes she could just move away from here so my husband texted back that if thats what she wants she can our we will move and let her take over the whole payment on the house and put it in her name.