Herpes

I was diagnosed with vaginal genital herpes around 3 years ago now. I went a year and half without ever having another outbreak after the first one but for the last nearly a year now I’ve had outbreak after outbreak and now they’ve started developing on my lips and anal. I really don’t know what’s causing this and I was also hospitalised with meningitis in November which I’m thinking was caused because of the herpes virus. Has anyone got any suggestions what i can do? I take antivirals but they don’t seem to work. Really had enough :(