He finally agreed to do what I said

My boyfriend and I have an STI and he was making me really upset because he’d get mad everytime I mentioned going to a doctor.

Me, as soon as I found out I was on it, having it taken care of. Him.. he had to like soak it in. He acted like it was a life altering thing, even though it can be 100% cured.

He also got mad when I told him to tell his ex.

So I’m like fine. I’m taking my medication for this and until you have done the same thing, we’re not having sex. I’m not touching you, I’m not going to STAY having trich because my boyfriend won’t go to the damn doctor.

I was letting him have some time. It’s only been a few days since we found out and I’ve been letting it sink in. Finally.. finally he came around and made a doctors appointment and also texted his ex and told her that he had this because that’s the right fucking thing to do.

I have legitimately been stressed about him being extremely dramatic about this like not even talking about it and I’m like you can’t just ignore sti’s 🤨 he would tell me “this is so embarrassing I have to make an appointment for this and it’s just so embarrassing I don’t want to do it.” Oh my god.

I am going through the exact same thing. get it together and go to the doctor! and finally he is going. Amen. Honestly I would dump him if he just refused to be treated and just kept his sti.. that’s disgusting.

We are paying over $200 for him to see a doctor and get treatment because he doesn’t have health insurance but I want this crap taken care of. I’m not playing with it.

I can’t tell if I have just been stressed out or if he was being as immature as I felt he was being.