Hey ladies! I’d appreciate some advice on this situation I’ve been thinking about.

There’s been this guy I’ve been seeing for a little over a month now. At first, we would meet up and try new places to eat. Eventually (very soon, actually) we ended up getting physical. The times we have gotten physical have taken place in nice hotel rooms. I didn’t ask why he would get a room, because I was already hesitant to bring him to my place so in turn I was content with it. One night, I decided to save some money and invite him to my place. I was assuming it would only be one time, but he’s been coming over damn near 4/5 days out the week 😩 I’m not complaining because he’s handsome😍 and I enjoy his company (and the “D” is good), but deep down I know I’ve been wanting something more. Not necessarily with him, but I want more than a friend. I feel it’s time I get in a relationship! As for him, I don’t want to assume anything is more than what it is, because hasn’t made any real moves.. it’d be nice tho.

My question is how should I move forward with him? It’s still early so I feel I am able to tweak our relationship. I’ve been thinking maybe I should not let him come over anymore, just to make room for the men that actually want more with me. I know I should talk to him & see where his head is at, but at the same time I feel like it’s too late for that. I mean, he already has a toothbrush at my place 😭😂 I like him, and I see him so often but I don’t want to start developing feelings for him and it goes nowhere. Help! 😩🥴