Why is it I have no sex drive. I haven't had sex in like a week I don't have the urge to. An if I do have sex it hurts afterwards like I feel like a bunch of air got pushed into my vagina and it's not like we switch positions we stick to one each time (it's a different position every time we have sex but not multiple positions) any how it's really uncomfortable afterwards to the point I am crying and trying to get comfortable as I can.