My 8 year old acts up so bad around me and has this weird anxiety like bladder issues. She just threw a tantrum for having to pee in the car. We was going to target to pick up my drive up order. She does this at school. And before bed and wakes up in the middle of the night.

She does NOT do this with my other family members. And not ever at her dads. I dont get it. Im really at a lost. Nothing bad has happened to her. She has a great life. She doesn’t get spankings or anything like others.

Im a disabled full time student while working full time doing medical billing.

Ive had 3 spinal cord surgery. Was paralyzed twice all from the moment she was born (long story) so i literally do have bladder problems. But im medicated. And i dont show the fear of accidents around anyone cause either i have a pad or a diaper on.

HOW CAN I STOP THIS. IF ALL ELSE FAILS. SADLY. I will have her live with her dad. Its too much stress on myself and on her.