Restraining order against my boys’ father
Okay so I have had it. Yesterday I told him I was absolutely done with him. I can’t do this anymore... I’m having hourly thought of my kids’ Dad coming over here and hurting me. We live in a trailer park and he does Meth with the guy literally across the street. He stalks me. He changes my phone passwords and all of my social media account passwords. My phone is broken. My house is tore to shambles. My front door doesn’t even lock because he’s kicked it in too many time. Busted out my taillight on my car. He won’t get off of meth or get a job or do anything.. he tells me everyday that I’m not worth anything and that I’m fat and that I’m a bad mom...
So today I made the call since he hasn’t been here. It’s making me tremble just writing this. I fear for mine and my two little babies lives. I made the call to see about how to go forward with getting a protective/restraining order. They said I had to come in before 2 and it was already 1:30 whenever I called. I just have one more night of this. But now, I fear even more that he will try to hurt me because he won’t be able to see me. He is the best narcissistic out there. You couldn’t find a better one tbh.
So my question is, what will happen after I get it? Will he be kicked out? What do I do with all of his stuff? Do I get it ready for him to get like do I pack it for him? Will CPS be here after? Please help!!


UPDATE!!!!
So I kid you not, literally not even 12 hours I posted this, this happened




So he climbs through our bedroom window (doors are unlocked and I’m asleep on the couch) and he hides in the bedroom. My sister calls my phone because I told her I was getting a protection order. So as soon as my phone rings, he comes storming in here “Who’s that? What guy are you fucking with now? I’m about to fuck some shit up” and I hang up the phone with my sister and she ended up calling the police. He snatches my phone out of my hand while I’m holding the baby and kind of shakes me a little bit to get it from me. I put the baby down and go back to him to get my phone. He takes the SIM card out of my phone and slams me into all his stuff he tinkers with when he’s high that’s on the ground. I try to catch myself as I’m falling back and this happens to my hand. So he takes my phone outside and brings it back to me like this. Soon after that I told him the cops are on the way and he runs. The ambulance gets here and checks my hand out and my vitals and then the cops get here and they issue me an emergency protection order and he now had a warrant for Domestic Violence. So I go get my friend and drop my boys (4 and 6 months) off to their grandmas house and go get my protection order. It’s weird how everything worked out the way it did. God was definitely protecting me that whole day and finally opened my eyes to realize that this wasn’t okay. It’s not okay to be constantly controlled, every single day of your life. He can’t hurt me anymore. My kids won’t have to ever see him hurt me ever again. I’m so glad I WOKE THE FUCK UP!
UPDATE #2
So here we are again, not even a couple of hours after I posted the update he came back here and violated his protection order. So it was around 6:20 this morning and he kicked in my front door. When he came in, I was asleep on the couch with both boys and I said to him you realize you are violating your protection order, correct? He said yea I know I just wanted to give you this and give my son a kiss. So he kissed our oldest, gave me a note and then left. I didn’t even look at the note and called the police. He stays at his moms house and his car is broken down over there so I knew exactly where he was and what he was driving. The cops get to his moms house before he did! He tried to tell the police that I followed him to McDonald’s this morning😂 like no, I was sleeping with your kids at my HOME! So he’s now in trial to see if he gets a bond or if he has to stay there. Hopefully thay are smart enough to keep him there given it’s only Monday and he was served Thursday with the order and got released on Friday. Here’s the note though below and the door he kicked in. Which was already kicked in and I had to put my dresser that’s heavy ASF with all of my clothes in it.


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