Not sure what to do? How to feel?

I went to my 36 week check up today. I have extreme swelling, I had preeclampsia in my last pregnancy so I’m at risk for that and we had to do a nst to check on baby cause she wasn’t moving as much as they’d like to see and they said everything is OK for now, but if I have any symptoms to go into L&D and I need to take it EASY. She said only get out of bed if I need to and relax as much as I can.

Well I have a one year old. And her dad is planning on snowboarding and bar hopping with his friends this whole weekend. (One just flew in from Cali). He hasn’t said anything and he’s not canceling his plans. He said to find someone to watch her then or he will take her to his moms.

I don’t really feel comfortable with her going somewhere she isn’t familiar with just so he can go get fucked up and I can realistically go into labor at anytime or develop preeclampsia ?

He’s saying I’m just trying to make him feel bad so he does t go.

He never helps me anyway it’s always up to my mom or me. Idk what to feel cause I think he’s gaslighting me or am I being dramatic???