Did I do something wrong? Wtf.

My husband hasn’t done dishes ever. Like no exaggeration or anything. We have been living together for 4 years and if the sink gets piled high he will walk right past it. I went through really bad depression for about 2 weeks and within that time frame couldn’t do dishes. I thought maybe, just maybe he’d do them but nope. Just let them pile for two weeks. He complained about them every day, just never did a thing about it. Then after my two week depression episode I finally was able to get up and do the dishes after two weeks. So anyways, today I noticed the sink was filled. So I said “man I really hate doing dishes. I wish we could switch off every other day or something” and immediately he caught an attitude and said “I wish you could do my job every other day too, since you want to play that card.” And I said what???? First off he’s been laid off all winter (the last 3 months he has had no employment and just is at home all day every day) so that didn’t even make sense. He goes back Monday so maybe that’s why he’s talking like that? Then he said “good job you already pissed me off today and it’s not even noon” and I just broke down. I stopped doing the dishes and I said “you know what, I just can’t do this right now. I can’t clean” and he yelled “yeah that’s what it looked like. Thought so” and went into another room and closed the door. Hasn’t come out in over 15 mins. Have no clue what he’s doing. Idk what to do I feel like I did something wrong but I’m just tired of doing the dishes daily. Especially when he adds to the dishes.