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Am I a shitty person?

A close friend of mine and I were messing around and he asked me to be FWB or get in a relationship with him, I said no and had told him that multiple times before we started messing around. I feel like a complete bitch because I knew that he wanted a relationship (not with me but just one in general) before we messed around. Please don't beat around the bush, does this make me a shitty person? 
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Ka

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Well in my opinion you shouldn't be messing around with him if he's a close friend. But I don't think you're a shitty person. You probably need to talk to him about it and stop messing around with him before he starts developing feelings for you and you hurt him. That can also screw up your friendship.

Ka

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Not a shitty person, good for him for stating what he wants, same to you. It doesn't make the situation any less shitty though.

WI

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It's a little shitty. You knew what he wanted and messed around with him anyway. That's leading him on. Note that I said it's shitty. I didn't say you were. Everyone does shitty things sometimes, but as long as they learn and try not to make the same mistake twice, they are not shitty people. 

Sa

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No. You are a very honest person and he should respect that about you

Am

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As long as you were honest from the jump you're not a shitty person. He knew what he was getting into just like you knew. You both made your choices- no reason to feel bad.

Je

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If you told him from the beginning that you didn't want a relationship and he still went for it I don't think you're to blame at all. 

BB

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Just be honest now. No you're not shitty, just don't lead him on because that's when it gets ugly. Don't be so hard on yourself Hun.
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