How did you know you were ready?

Question

So I just got out of a 4 1/2 year relationship. We have kids. The story is complicated and long. I'm the happiest I've been in years despite my world being turned upside down and my ex trying to destroy my life. He became controlling, abusive and horrible overall. 
I recently started talking to a guy I met many years ago. We flirt, it's fun and exciting for me since I haven't been complimented in like forever. He's invited me out and I feel guilty about moving on. I feel like I should maybe cut ties and concentrate on rebuilding myself. After my break up I thought I would do what my mum did and concentrate on the kids, then date when they're much older. 
How did you know you were ready?

Answer

If you have to ask then you probably aren’t ready. 
You’ve been through a traumatic experience and most people who have been abused need time to find themselves again, the people who jump into new relationships quickly often find themselves in another abusive situation. 
Its ok to be single. Its ok to focus on yourself and your children. You aren’t half a person needing someone else to make you whole.

Answer

I was single for 2 1/2 years before I met the guy I’m with now 😂

Answer

Everyone is different. I was single for 3 years before I met my husband. It wasn’t because I wasn’t ready to date it was more so finding a person who is suitable for me. don’t rush into if your not ready.

How did you know you were ready?

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