I need to vent real quick.. Srry

I did something bad which I get that now I have to pay for my mistake. But my mom who doesn't work btw tells me that I splurge my money on nonsense. So this is what I spend my money on:
E-Z pass tolls 
Gas money 
The first two things is me helping my father out.
Then its:
Weekly metrocards (since that's all I can afford) 
Food 
Personal hygiene stuff
Then whatever scrap change I have left I get important clothing like bras and underwear 
But according to my mother I'm spending money on useless things and that I'm bad with money 😢