I have a 2 year old and am due with #2 end of October. I just found out my MIL is trying to organize the whole family to go skiing for Christmas when new baby would be 2 months old. We also live overseas so this would be an international flight with a toddler and newborn basically (2 months). I feel like this is pretty insensitive to ask of us? Going from 1 to 2 and traveling and having no ide how we’ll be managing. They are also not grandparents who help out with kids a lot and don’t support breastfeeding which I did with my first and hope to for my second. I just feel awful Bc I know my husband will want to be with everyone. Thoughts?