So not happy

I’m so tired is this normal or is it out of line. To my husband I am “dirty” I am a fully time student and full time worker plus I cook and clean when I have time. I can never have my backpack in the counter because he throws it and says it can’t go there. He won’t let me hang my hair ties in the shower hook (I forget) I had my bathrob hanging in the restroom and he throws it in the dirty laundry basket. He comes home and tells me something is always dirty and how I am so ungrateful. Would you consider that dirty. ?