No adults

Does anyone else have everyone in their life that is an adult be completely in capable of ever acting like adults. It’s like they’re helpless because they refuse to help themselves and then it just falls onto you and creates all this pressure and makes you feel like you’re fucking suffocating. Because I’m exhausted and I just want to be able to live my own life but somehow every single adult in my life prevents me from doing so and I’m really fucking sick of it and I’m sick of being guilty over it. Anyone else feel this way or have this issue?