18 weeks and was struggling today :(

Today was horrible.. :( I ate way too much and I think I was stressed an upset today. I always feel like When I don’t eat at least decent I’m hurting the baby. I know I’m crazy haha but I just get so worried. ( if you can’t tell this is my first time being pregnant 😅)

Today I asked for advice on how to handle the 2 year old I was nannying and I guess I worded some stuff wrong and someone commented saying that my behavior was very concerning and that I shouldn’t be getting upset with the 2 year old... ( I under he’s 2 lol but it can be hard when kids are in a phase where they don’t want to listen ever) I had a full break down and called my husband in tears telling him how bad of a mom I am going to be. He was amazing and helped me through it.

I just want to say that I really think that we never know what people are going through and words can really hurt. I came in here for advice and that’s now what I got. I do think it was a good lesson for me to learn in being carful how I word things so I don’t come across the wrong way.

I guess through all of this I just wanted say that if anyone is feeling like a bad mom just know that it’s okay and you are trying your hardest. The things people say do not matter because they truly don’t know what’s going on in your life.