13 dpo

Well its been 13 days since i was ovulating. My period was supposed to start 2 days ago. I don't ovulate regularly, and have irregular periods so it could be nothing. I have been having some cramps here and there, my back has been sore, but i haven't had any other symptoms like i did with my first pregnancy. My boyfriend thinks i shouldn't test cause he thinks im overreacting. Really i think its him not wanting to get let down if it comes out negative. I think i should test, but then again, i don't want the let down either.