So today is my due date. So I’m big and uncomfortable and been having contractions for weeks and pain in my ligaments for months. I also have a very active two year old.

I worked full time until two weeks ago when I finally gave up to get a bit of rest before birth.

Now in theory my boyfriend understands that I’m tired and that he needs to help out more at home but in practice he’s being such a martyr about it and acting as if I’ve got such a good deal. In the weekends there are chores to be done and he’s been grudgingly doing them super slowly while I’ve been running after our son. And he’s constantly complaining that he doesn’t have time to himself outside of work anymore and that it’s not fair that I get to rest while our son goes to daycare tomorrow. Now I have to finish the chores he half started while he takes out our son for a bit while acting as if he deserves a medal.

Right now I just want to go to the hospital alone when things get started because he just keeps focussing on his needs rather than being supportive. I might be slightly irrational but hey that’s where I’m at. 🤷‍♀️