i want to break up with him.

i want to break up with my boyfriend.. but he gets so vindictive.

last time he broke up with me over a job .. and i told him i wasn’t going to allow him to not let me take the job when he knows i need the money. my current job has this thing where they don’t pay people until 3 weeks of employment and i’m only on my second week .. i started March 29th, i won’t be getting paid until the 23rd damn near a month of NO PAY.

he told me to give him everything he bought me, my shoes, some clothes.. like fine have it back.

but then he threatened telling his parents my personal life situation that happened way before him, so that we can’t get back together because they’ll hate me and won’t want me at their house anymore.

we are fine now .. but my family is moving out of state and i wanted to go see them, but i wasn’t sure if they were home or not. so he kept saying let’s go now let’s go, and i told him to wait a little bit so i can speak to my family and ask if they are home. so a title while goes back and my family is home so i tell him let’s go and he tells me “you made me wait, so i’m going to make you wait” IN FRONT OF HIS DAD, and i call him out, tell him to stop justifying his actions, and i leave and then he has the audacity to tell me to not talk to him like that in front of his parents.

- also just to add he’s not threatening to tell his parents what i did so that we don’t break up .. he’s going to do it wether we break up on good terms or bad terms.