Is understandable if bf is feeling low and doesn’t want to talk for days?

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I’m giving him space but it also makes me feel very insecure. We go from talking 24/7 to all of a sudden he’s closed off and distant. I know how much of a toll depression can take on a person but I don’t know what to do. I told him I’m here and he knows that but he still isn’t talking.

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Manipulation! shower you with love and the leave you cold and wanting more, and could be cheating. Don’t blame yourself for wanting communication because this isn’t normal.

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It's complicated. 
Yes, everyone responds to sadness and trauma in different ways and this is a valid response. A lot of people isolate themselves. 
However, you are not required to, and could easily be unable to be in a relationship where this is a regular occurrence. Your needs are totally valid too- and it's a big problem if they go unmet, especially when you do actually talk- because what does that leave for you? That would be asking way too much of you.
It's understandable for a partner to go through that, but it's also okay if you can't really make that work, especially in newer relationships.

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Red flag. Is this once, or does he do this regularly? It won't go away unless he's willing to learn how to let you in while he's dealing with his feelings.

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thats tough because you want to give him space but also make sure he is ok. is he recieving help? also is there someone that can go by and check on him?

Is understandable if bf is feeling low and doesn’t want to talk for days?

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