Hiding ovulation

Cathy

My hubby and I are TTC. He is completely on board, and we have even seen the fertility specialist together. Despite being fully on board with having a baby, I NEVER tell him when I am ovulating. Early on, I would tell him, but this seemed to make him feel pressured to perform and he would occasionally have performance issues, which does not really happen when we are just having sex for fun. I usually tell him after I have ovulated because he should have to experience the torture that is the TWW with me (nobody should experience this alone), but I hide my opks and just seduce him when the time is right. Anybody else in the same boat?