Me and my husband have constant arguments about chores and stuff in the house. He claims he “never” relaxes or gets to sit down, but my tangible evidence- video footage- proves he is sitting on the couch 50% of the time minimum. On his phone.

Is it petty to point this out? By date and time etc?

I am asking if it’s petty because idk if he is living in a delusion. Will presenting him with the evidence will help the delusion or just piss him off?

*we work opposite schedules. And different days off. We have a 2.5 year old and i am currently 18 weeks pregnant. I would honestly say we do 50-50 around the house however I do take on the extra burden of the “mental load” as most women do.