Thank you, next. Periodt.

Boyfriend went on a trip to spend a week long trip with his daughter (med student and super sweet girl) in NC. (**Ex boyfriend after today). He had told me about how she had been feeling stressed with exams and down with no friends or family around... I love her and fully supported this trip. Yesterday he tells (one text) me his return flight info, and asks me to meet him in that city —3 hours away from where we live, where he’s flying in to...so I make the drive today. Waited for him. Excited to see him. However, he was shady last night and it was on my mind how he was basically non-existent —2 random weird texts at odd times and seemed like I was being blocked and unblocked—he has never done that before but it was pretty obvious by the way some messages would be delivered and some would not at all. I somehow just knew.

Today, he didn’t show up at the time he told me. Despite my intuition I actually got worried something had happened.

Well, he *unsurprisingly* all the sudden was able to text me this afternoon—HALLELUJAH!—huzzah, his cell phone regained function! He told me his “flight was f—ed up.”

Oddly...not only did HE screw up his flight back but told me he was NOT in North Carolina with his daughter, but in Phoenix, (where his ex wife lives.)

I knew...I mean I really knew and then he confirmed...he was with her last night. He didn’t block me, he says...his phone was on airplane mode so it’s not as bad as blocking. WHAT?! 😂

(omg it hurts to even type all this out 🤕 I feel so stupid)

I didn’t sleep last night bc I was genuinely worried something happened to him...and then I was honestly worried today. For nothing. NOTHING. He was getting laid and I was anxious!!!!

Soooo....A strong wind blew this potato of a man from NC (he did go there for a few days bc she talked to me while they were together) to AZ, directly over his home state, where I’m waiting for him as he ASKED ME TO DO. And I’m supposed to be understanding. Um, no. W.T.F. 😂

He had ZERO intention of being honest with me. ZERO intention of being a decent person. He would have arrived tonight fresh from his ex wife with me non-the-wiser if he hadn’t accidentally booked his flight for Sunday, July 25 instead of Sunday, April 25.

I can’t even.

✨✨✨Girls. ✨✨✨For the love. Be smarter than me and let your intuition guide the way!

P.s. ...he has all the sudden started sharing location with me and asked me to do the same. FFS. Ermmmm, no. After this many (7) years I’m done. Fuc/ing done. I am THE most loyal woman you will EVER meet and he took all my time, love, effort, and investment into this relationship, threw it in a dumpster and lit it on fire. *I don’t need to know +where+ you are bc you are exactly where you want to be and it’s not with me.

You don’t deserve to know where I am bc you’re not worth it.* Eff you, Mark. BYE.

Trust yourself, girl. Learn from my over and over and over mistake. 💜