Is taking a break in your relationship bad?

For 3 months now I've been really noticing stuff lacking in my relationship. Mind you we've been dating for a year and 2 months. I've always had these thoughts but I always pushed them aside but now they are starting to become hard for me to push to the back of my head and have me rethinking my relationship. One it lacks affection from him, we don't spend enough quality time together its always food and movies, we never went go places together, he barely calls and check on me if he does it's always around 10pm or later or he's calling to ask me to do something. He spends more time getting cars worked on or with his kids (which I don't mind). 2nd he's 34 and I'm 22, when I'm ready for kids what if he's not, I'm not trying to be a step mom without even trying to have my own kids. He always seem to make things happen when I need them done but I'm not getting the time that I feel I should be getting. I want to take a break because there's been alot of stuff going on with him and I think he needs sometime to himself to get himself back on the right track. I would like sometime to myself to think able my life and my future and have some me time without the stress of everyone else life and to think about if this what I want for the rest of my life. I've also talked to him about how I felt but he continues to tell me that he has to make money. My question to you guys am I wrong for wanting to take a break? Should I just call it quits? Should I try to talk with him again? Guys I really need some advice this has been bothering me for 3 months now it's starting to take a toll on my mind and making me feel differently about our relationship.