My husband and I have been together for 6 years married for 4 years. We have a 16 month old daughter and we have decided to try for another baby. My husband has very recently told me that if we have another girl on our 2nd pregnancy he is done having kids because he doesn’t want to risk having anymore girls if he doesn’t have a son. This is very upsetting to me because before we even got engaged I stressed that I wanted a large family and made sure we were on the same page.

That being said we agreed that for this pregnancy we wouldn’t find out the gender until the birth. He is now very angry with me because I told him if he is that set on how he feels I want to know the gender so I can be prepared if this is my last pregnancy.

I don’t know how to feel about any of this I love my husband very much but I love being a mom more than anything in this world. I don’t want this to be a breaking point in our marriage. Should I just be happy with what I have?