Judgement

I just need to vent my spleen!

My partner’s cousins came over to meet bubs today. They are nice girls and I get on with them well, however, one of them left me a bit upset.

Due to a complication from the birth I am sadly unable to breastfeed. I tried really hard to make it work, but we had to move bubs onto formula which is fine - so long as my baby has a full tummy and is healthy then I’m happy.

One of his cousins was questioning me about the bottle and got really judgey about it. She also told me off for there not being any routine to Evie’s day. She’s 2 months old and really clingy and terrible at day sleeping so it’s been hard to try set a routine.

My partner told me not to take it to heart but she made me feel like a failure, even though it’s something completely out of my control

Important note - this girl does not have kids