We can’t think of a family name

We are expecting our third baby, a boy!!!

We are having a hard time coming up with a meaningful middle name.

Our rule is they get their own first name, but, we want him to have a middle name that means something special like our oldest two.

My oldest daughter has my middle name as her middle name. Our son has my husbands first name as his middle name.

It would be easy to use my husbands middle name but it’s just a letter and he hates it. The men in both our families are not the kind of men you name a baby after. 😬

Any ideas on another meaningful way to find a middle name? One that if your parents gave it to you you’d be ok with it after naming your siblings like we have?

Thank you 💜