Met this guy who is in a wheelchair

So I met this guy and he is really awesome , the vibe is very amazing and he is very sweet but he is in a wheelchair. He got shot last year at a memorial of guy who had just passed away in our hometown . I didn’t know him prior to the incident but I feel as if I was put into his life for a reason as well as he was put into mines. Like I just have this feeling that he is going to be the one but I’m just scared because I have an apartment with stairs and I’m just scared because I can’t image what it’s like being with someone who is in a wheelchair. Does anyone has a S/O who is in a wheelchair or is someone in a wheelchair who has a someone ? How does things work out ?