very frustrating

all of my sex life ive had pain and discomfort during sex. It’s all i’ve ever known so i figured i was born that way etc I always have had painful periods and horrible cramps. I told my gynecologist and she completely ignored me and said i was fine. then she brought my mom back into the room to discuss birth control when i told her the IUD sounds scary and invasive she told me i’m used to getting things stuck up there!!!!! in front of my mom and also incredibly inappropriate! I was 17 at the time now 18. Once i turned 18 I signed all the papers at my doctors office to have confidentiality and to have none of my parents notified or called for anything. I got switched to a new dr because my old one left the office. I told this new doctor everything about my gyno experience and all she had to say was don’t bring your mom if you don’t want her to know. Am i crazy for thinking what the gyno said was inappropriate and insensitive?? then i told her i wanted a new one and she brushed me off after i told her the problems i had w my implant that was put in by that gyno. She just said yeah you can talk to your new gyno about it once you find one. I did a wellness exam that day at the drs and later found out i tested positive for chlamydia. I have had chlamydia likely for four years. I was shocked and horrified because of PID and infertility. the next day after the notified me i got a text from my mom after the health department reached out to my mom!!!!! After all of this i’ve completely lost my trust for medical officials. not to mention that gyno i was talking about she was the one who put my implant in and the day of i was feeling a little scared because friends told me that they had horrible reactions to it. She goes k so are we doing this or not? with no empathy and not trying to reassure me at all.