Depressed about weight gain

Nelly • 🐼 Nelly 🐼: IVF#1: 3 Failed FET.||IUI #1: MMC @ 9wks.💔|| IUI #2&3: Neg.|| IVF#2: Nov 2020; FET#4: 1/28/21-💕Born 9/21/21 ✨🍀✨💛✨🙏🏽✨🍍✨🙌🏽✨🌈✨

I’m 17 weeks. Before pregnancy I was 173 and now I’m 183. Roughly. I went through <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>, but I was 165 before I did that. Now I’m getting extremely depressed because people keep saying how big I am. I want to lose 10-15 pounds. I know it’s not supposed to be a goal in pregnancy, but I have heard of people doing it and doctors suggesting it for overweight and obese women. I’m getting so upset with myself for allowing myself to gain so much weight so fast. I just keep crying. 😥😥😥😥