I've been on the fence about getting an abortion and I just scheduled my appointment for the 14th. I'll be about 6 weeks along and I'm really sad. But I'm not ready for a baby, I couldn't support one and neither can my boyfriend. It's the best thing for us and the baby. But somehow I can't stop crying. I've always been pro-choice with the mindset that if I got pregnant when I wasn't ready that Getting an abortion would be no problem. Nobody tells you how hard of a decision it can be. Nobody tells you about about the pain you feel with a loss of your unborn & barely made child.