Makeup/skincare suggestions

So I'm in my early 20s and just now starting to get into makeup. One problem I have is that I have gigantic pores. I wash my face every morning, I do masks every so often, idk what to do about it or if there is anything I can do. I can't find a single foundation or primer that works for me. It always looks cakey, and makes the peach fuzz and pores on my face more noticeable. I also have a lot of redness which is why I wanted to wear foundation in the first place. I've tried liquid and powder foundation, brushes and beauty blenders, different primers and no primer, and also setting powders and sprays. If anyone has any skincare and/or makeup recommendations or tips it would be greatly appreciated lol