Porn over sex

Hi ladies,

I need some help and advice.

My relationship is amazing and this man is my best friends. However, over the past year we haven’t been having sex or intimate moments.

He still watches porn and entertains himself but if and very rarely we get intimate he never gets hard.

I’ve tried to talk to him but that gets us nowhere. He refuses to speak to anyone.

I feel disgusting, fat, ugly and undesirable.

He gets the perfect women and fantasy through porn. How can I compete with that!!

Any advice??