What would you say to a friend

If they bail on you every time you make plans together and/or is always 5 hours late?

Like let’s say you guys were supposed to go run errands Or go shopping or have lunch.

The next day you call or text her to see what time she’s going to be here. Never hear back. Last time she text me back was 5 weeks ago.

Only time I see her is when my boyfriend and I go over to see her and her boyfriend. Our bfs are friends.

Anddd she seems to always apologize when I come over “sorry I’ve just been busy”

And I keep wanting to tell her it’s ok she has nothing to apologize for because in reality I feel she truly just doesnt want to hang out anymore. I’m understanding of people growing apart but my issue here is the bailing on me. She tends to ask me what’s wrong when I’m there with her too, and I believe she knows why and just feels bad or something who knows.

I mean there’s been times no joke we were supposed to meet up and it was important, and she was 6 hours late. Each hour she kept saying she had to do something.

And it’s like this every single time. I’m mad but I’m not, because I’ve known her for so long. I guess I’m just kind of tired of feeling so flip flop about our relationship. Or what used to be lmao. People make time for who they want to make time for.