I need help/advice/insight *warning long post*

So we (my husband,our son and me also pregnant with #2) live in 2 bad 2 bath apartment that cost $1105 + $50 utilities.So our one year lease expires soon so they send new contract. $1295 + $50 for utilities.Husband is driving truck have his own business and I’m sahm.

So I called my husband and told him about that and he said it is getting expensive so he will call his dad who left to be in other country to see is he coming back or not.See house his parents live well now just his mom is on my husband name and he wants to see coming back to live here or not so we can come back to that house.

So problem is next : I have lived with my mil for 2 months when I was pregnant heavily and I did everything around house (we were renting house before coming to apartment).She never took anything in her hand to wash dishes,make meal.But you know what she did complain about everything and anything I did; how I don’t know how to clean house,how my food isn’t tasty,how there isn’t anything for her to eat while I was sleeping (it was 11 pm and she spends entire night watching tv) and this was in front of my husband that she said. And I told him no I don’t want to live with her and I reminded him about past.I also said when I give birth for second time no one will be there to help me because she always says she is sick (but if you offer her to take her to store just for fun she will gladly accept or to spend entire morning even day in garden taking flys from flowers leafs-like leaf by leaf). See when I gave birth to my son my FIL and my mil were at my house every day for couple hours but never remembered to bring homemade food (I don’t ask for it but they all know how my delivery was and I couldn’t stand in kitchen for long time to make something). But my SIL was there almost 24/7 even tho she have her own house and kids to take care of. And now because of that I don’t want to live with her.Because on end I will be one who on the end will have mental breakdown. I also told him that I will even work just to cover rent he said no (because he earns lot so add mine income big tax return)

I also will suggest for her to go to apartment (those social ones because she get welfare) and house is big enough and she doesn’t do around house mowing lawn or anything my husband does that and she always says that she can’t clean house so we need to do for her (wash windows,mop,vacuum etc).

Am I unreasonable,overreacted?

My mom isn’t even here so we don’t live with my mom nor I will with his I just can’t .

And to find another apartment they are all expensive and those cheaper are in bad condition

Edit

@NarhwalsAreReal: yes basically that is it he wants us to move with them due to rising rent of apartment.We actually never lived with them my mil lives with us for 2 month when there was accident in house so they had to fix it.