Is this love? 💕

Question

If a man continue  to help you in your daily activities, do chores for you, go to the market for groceries, wash your clothes and all that but does not respect you, brags about the things he does for you, make people see what he is doing for you, is this love?

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No baby, that’s not love

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NO!  Those things he is doing is the BARE MINIMUM. If he was living alone, he would be doing it for himself (hopefully)so why does that make him special if he does it with his woman. He does not love you if he throws it in your face and thinks hes special for doing chores

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No, it’s not love. When it’s done out of love it doesn’t matter if no one knows. You do it just to make the person’s life a little easier without expecting anything in return.

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No love is doing things out the kindness of your heart because you want to do it not because you can boast about it later and not respect the person they're with.

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Nope he’s doing it for clout/recognition so IMO it isn’t pure. Me & my partner both barely do social media & barely talk to many people outside of our close circle & family as it is but when we do things like that for one another or even bigger gestures we don’t look for applause or likes we just do it. My man will literally get up & go put all of our groceries away for me, run my bath, take our dog out & bring me my food with my condiments & not speak once about it. THAT is love.

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No, you don’t do things to then want praise from others

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No and mostly likely he’s tired of it and what’s something in return. You do things out of the kindness in your heart, that’s love. Expecting and bragging is not.

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