Emotional bc I don't enjoy sex

Do any of you get emotional bc you've never been able to cum or have a orgasm? It makes me feel like having sex is a waste of time and I don't enjoy it. I'm relaxed...but it hurts like my cervix is being hit. I've done different positions...the person I'm with is average size so it can't be that. I just don't see the point in sex anymore if I get nothing out of it.