Would you be fine with...?

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Your boyfriend's girl best friend sleeping over at his place?

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If I'm there then yes

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soooo i was cool with this. then they fucked. so it’s a no from me now.

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I am a female, my best friend of 30 years, is a man, we are family, his children I love them like they were my own, I love his girlfriend, they’ve been together like 10 years, she loves me too. I take the kids diapers I take them clothes whatever they need. There’s a difference between someone who’s on the down low or in front of your face is flirting with your guy or trying to steal him away or anything like that. Trying to sabotage the relationship etc. I don’t know their relationship. If she’s the one who got away or he is or down deep they like each other, no clue. But I have zero feelings like that for my best friend, we are literally like family. I know in the beginning his girlfriend didn’t like me, because she saw me as the other woman or competition something like that, but eventually she got used to me, we’ve been family for ever. And there is no intention of anything between the two of us. But like the other person said if the two of you guys are staying there fine but if the two of them were cuddling in bed, absolutely not.￼￼ it’s either you make friends with her, because if it comes down to you or her, it may not go the way you want it to. I don’t know how long he’s been friends with her, if this is someone new, or if your relationship is new. Because if it’s new, he’s probably gonna pick her if it comes down to it. If you guys have been together 10 years and you’ve got kids etc. that’s a different story. But all you can do is express your feelings that it makes you uncomfortable and you would rather he didn’t. Or if you’re invited as well, then that’s a different story. But The two of them alone sleeping over, tell them it makes you uncomfortable and you would rather he didn’t if she wanted to come sleep at the house with you there, she can sleep in another bedroom. Or on the couch, but the two of them sleeping together alone absolutely not￼

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I'm always cool with it and some of them end up cheating but others didn't. It all depends on the partner and their commitment to your relationship. Either way, it's not something in your control or your doing/undoing. I trust my partners until they give me a reason not to, not the other way around, that's unhealthy. Took lots of therapy to help with it so it's not a common thing in relationships I guess. Either way, if they want to cheat, they'll do it eventually, sleepover or not. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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I don't care what he does i trust him

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Absolutely 100% no

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I would honestly say no if I’m not theyre I can’t come up with a reason on why she would have to spend the night. Idk about y’all but my ex had a girl bsf and she would come over to the house all the time but they would chill outside or go somewhere out unless I was home it wasn’t until I told her that I didn’t mind if she and him chilled in the house sometimes. I think if his friend doesn’t set boundaries at least at the beginning of the relationship then she might have alternative intentions. The boundaries that were set for us was set by her. She just wouldn’t do it and when I asked why she said she respected me and our relationship. So set boundaries ig

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Depends on the context. And if I’m there, totally.

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