I’ve slept with about 10 guys and I have never enjoyed it, I don’t get any good feels from intercourse and don’t get the hype??

I have no idea what it is, am I missing something? With all the guys I’ve slept with I have been semi drunk so I’m not sure if that has anything to do with it but surely I should feel some pleasure... I don’t feel pain, I just don’t feel anything haha

I’m not sure if it’s the alcohol or the fact I’ve not had a connection with any of the men or if it’s just me!

Can anyone relate / help?!