I need a man's answer here!! Am I overreacting?? 🤔🙊😪

Before I start I know there are some out there who will comment nasty comments. So it's ok. No harm. I just come for some advice (what you would do)

Hi everyone 🙂

Today I send this message here to get some advice on what to do about this situation.

The place where I work with my partner has quiet a few women and we all work together. Now is it really necessary to wear short skirts, dresses, pants that shows almost everything and still sit with your legs wide open INFRONT of my partner??

Yes it's a different country and so on but jeez have some respect! Not just for yourself but for the people around you (or am I wrong)

I am not allowed to wear any dresses because it's part of the rules and therefore I follow them as it's work to be professional and have respect.

Now this specific woman asks him the whole time questions and some are personal... Now tell me, he is supposed to tell her to back off in a nice friendly respectful way and say that's personal please don't ask (or am I wrong) ??

I mean I get dirty looks and no help at all when I work with them and yet I'm friendly and respectful and helpful to them.

Now if I sound "jealous" IM NOT. She can really or should I say THEY can all have him if they want that's how much it is for me already.

When I try talk to him or ask him things on what did they talk about he says oh no nothing. They only spoke about work. Now no one will talk about work if they laugh like they do and touch each other's arm / shoulder right?! 🤔💩 BS I say!!!

When I try make conversion I just get ignored and that makes me feel bad because I'm trying to be nice to them.

The reason why I ask my partner questions is because we are supposed to be 1 who can trust and rely on each other.

I even caught him on chat sites and looks at porn and he says he does not do that, that someone must have done that and it was not him 💩💩💩

I feel so bad about myself and my body because I feel I'm not good enough for him. He tells me he loves me and wants a future with me but why do those things that he knows (or might not know) will hurt me and make me question.

Am I the wrong one here that is just overreacting or am I not.