Am i asking for too much ?

I’m really confused about what to do about my relationship. My boyfriend is the laziest person i have ever met.. okay so I’m 21 years old Nurse and my boyfriend is 28 years old and He is in the army. I work 40+ over a week and I feel like i have the right to complain about how tired i’m. In the other hand my boyfriend only works 2 days on 2 days off. When he has days off all he does is playing video games 10 hours straight. I get home at 2 am and he still on computer playing games, i find it so unattractive and when he tries to touch me i get irritated and don’t even wanna have sex. He complains how everyone so stupid at his work and he shouldn’t need to go to work because he is gonna make some money on stocks he is just delusional. So many excuses to not go to work his boss calls him to work and he just pretends like he missed the call so he wouldn’t need to go to work. He has these online friends of his for 8 years straight and he never even met them yet he thinks they are his best friends. He has no social life, no interests and no friends in real life as well. He stopped talking with his family so long ago like how am I supposed to see this boy as a husband in the future? 28 years old fkn soldier wasting his time playing video games 24/7. And when i ask him to stop playing he says he needs some fun in his life because he works so much and he is so tired. Yo he sleeps at 4 am and wakes up at 3 pm a fucked up sleeping schedule. No exercising, no social life, no cute dates nothing ... on valentines day he was playing video games while i was working and he didn’t even offer to pick me up after work while he was up till 5 am. but i still love him and deep down hoping that he would change. But i also don’t wanna waste my time with him if he is not gonna change in the future... I don’t know what to do. I have separation anxiety i feel like I can’t ever leave him even though he is the worst boyfriend ever.