Disappointed

Had my IUD (Paragard) removed and midwife told me I would be extremely fertile. I monitored my ovulation, tracked my peak days, baby danced all my way through ovulation. Guaranteed that there was enough baby juice by the time ovulation came around. Started taking prenatal vitamins and my breasts were swollen and tender and that’s never happened before my period so I was hopeful. Started HCG testing since 6DPO until 16DPO all negatives. Today after 31 days (2-3 AF late) I started spotting 😔 guess this month wasn’t it 🤷🏼‍♀️ anyone else going through the same? I’m sad because this month is Father’s Day and my BF’s birthday so I thought it would’ve been a great surprise, guess not 😢 Blessings to you all, if you could leave some support in the comments would be greatly appreciated! Thank you