Hello, Before we start i'd just like to ask for some baby dust to be sprinkled my way!🤣Thank you.

Now my husband has a 4 year old daughter, i've only been in her life for 6 months. I've met her mother, She's Nice as far as i know. My husband had his daughter in high school, the mother had the baby and two years alter finally told him he's the father (he had no clue)

I found that odd asf concerning she was a high schooler at the time as well, opening choosing to take care of a child alone. I mean the baby is his twin😂💯.

We are a very educated on our mental physical and spiritual health. My husbands daughter has an all american child's diet. UNHEALTHY! Now that my husband and i share a home we have changed our eating habits a lot of the food most americans eat we don't eat. So when she comes over i try to make eating healthy fun without over stepping my boundaries as a step parent.

I get her to try new fruits she's never heard of

She's always into the idea but her mother has her stuck in bad habits, like not consuming the nutritions a 4 year old needs hell ANYBODY needs to GROW! My husband knows this but since she lives with her mom there's nothing he can do, But when she comes over she must eat what her body needs not wants. She likes to ask me questions she's a very smart child and i'm not a parent yet but i know how to talk to children, but with her being intelligent she asks me serious perspective analyzing questions, I' see the world for exactly what it is, i believe that a lot of things i was taught in school was a complete lie and i spend everyday reading and crafting my skills, so when she asks me questions her somewhat being my child, I want to give her the truth! The truth her father and i agreed on that the world will not tell her. If i tell her the truth it contradicts what her mother said, and i don't want to cause any issues. I'm trying not to overstep, NEVER!