At A Loss…

Louise

Okay Guys,

So I started talking to a new guy, I haven’t actually met him yet. We’ve been talking for about a week now. He used to abuse drugs but he’s clean now and has given up smoking. His mental health is quite bad and to be honest, I’m struggling here. I very much like him but it feels almost as if I’m just somebody to talk to, which is fine.. But I’m looking for something more than that. He has talked about meeting but I genuinely don’t think he’s in the right headspace. Everyday we talk, it’s negativity. It puts me down, we were talking before bed last night and it was quite a depressing chat we were having. I went to bed and I just cried, I don’t know why. I don’t know how to cope with negative energy but I do like him a lot. I always sympathise with him and tell him it’s gonna be okay because I have struggled with anxiety and depression myself. He kind of does this thing were he’ll text and I’ll reply, but he takes a while to reply.. Sometimes an hour or more. I don’t care about that though. I just don’t know what to do and I would greatly appreciate anyone who could help.

Thank You.