what do u do???

what do u do if u in love with someone else and have a bf?? ive been in love with guy for years and years we talk as friends i have dreams of him and everything he knows that im in love with him but the kicker is hes always put me down and talk crazy and always tell me bye and ect.. he never wanted to date me he never loved me or nothing and he always lives in another country at the moment and suppose to come back he tells me cares and loves me and all but i really think he just saying it because he had plenty time to date me.. we use to have sex but he just used me for sex.... im dreaming about him sometimes like lastnight we made love and we wss dating but that is not real he would never date me or be in love with me... i need help to get this dude out of my mind...

so my bf now we been together 6 years and well he doesnt treat me like a woman he doesnt spend timw with me or nothing at all we dont even have sex i hate him i cant stand him to touch me after all the things hes done to me in the past.... we havbt kissed in 6 years no joke... i fell out of love with him years ago becauss what he use to do... im not happy ...